Settling into school

Making friends at a new school: where should I start?

Find one shared activity to join. Take bullying or ongoing exclusion to the school.

How do I make a first connection at a new school?

Look for one shared interest or school-approved activity.
Ask a question, listen, then share something yourself. Childline’s friendship tips suggest these ways to start.

What if I keep being excluded or bullied?

Tell a trusted adult and contact the school.
UNICEF’s school guidance explains checking the bullying response policy and speaking with a school counsellor where available.

What to do

Aim for one respectful conversation, not a target number of friends.

Bring

An activity you want to try
One question about a shared interest

Steps

Choose an activity you enjoy and ask how to join.
Ask one question about the shared activity, such as what they like about it.
Listen, then add one thing you enjoy; leave room for them to respond.
If you feel unsafe or repeatedly excluded, tell a trusted adult at school.

Basis

Childline offers conversation and shared-activity ideas; UNICEF covers the school response to bullying.

Verified: 2026-10-12Next review: 2027-01-10